THE DATING GAME for MEN
From someone who knows – another woman!
ð POSITIVE THINKING – Believe that you will find that someone special!
ð CLEANLINESS – Before we even leave the house, make sure you’re looking fresh and clean! That mean’s you’re not walking out with unwashed just-got-out-of-bed ruffled hair, last night’s clothes crumpled and unironed, if you’re wearing sandals your feet/toenails aren’t going to frighten a woman off and your breath isn’t smelling of stale tobacco and alcohol! The point of all this? Who says you have to meet “the one” in a nightclub or party! You could be at the supermarket! Drag racing! At an auction! So BE READY! Wear after shave (or a good deodorant)! Nothing turns my head more quickly than a man walking by leaving a trail of irresistible cologne after him (YES! The After Shave/Deodorant TV commercials are right!) If you don’t get what I’m saying at this early stage, stick with the boys!
ð MESMERIZING LOOK – You’ve spotted her in the crowd and you’re hoping all that stuff on the law of attraction works because you’re going to send a piercing stare her way and hope her eyes meet yours. A special gaze especially when you lock eyes can be very erotic without you having ever said one word to each other!
ð THE SMILE – She’s noticed you and doesn’t seem too put off, so send her your best sensual smile (hopefully you’ve brushed your teeth too!)
ð THE MATING GAME BEGINS – Now you’ve engaged a liaison, turn your interest quickly to something else as if you’ve lost interest (momentarily) and then seek her out visually again. With any luck or law of attraction she will still be hovering there and hopefully will look up to see if you’re still interested!
ð APPROACH – Casually start moving towards her ready to woo her with your witty one-line introduction. Leave out those well worn tired ones: “Haven’t I seen you here before?” “Do I know you?” “Do you have the time?” “What’s a nice girl like you doing in a place like this?” “You have the most amazing eyes!” We’ve heard it all before and will definitely give you a MINUS and not a PLUS! It’s the electronic age! Why not try something like: “If I was on Twitter right now, I’d TWEET: JUST SEEN THE MOST ATTRACTIVE GIRL AT THE…” If at the supermarket: try getting some advice on how to pick a good quality fruit or vegetable. The word “attractive” is proven to be a better choice of adjective than – beautiful or pretty. See “romantic chick flicks” and study the lines the male actor uses on the heroine.
ð START SLOWLY – Now you’ve engaged in conversation suggest having a coffee to continue getting to know each, or if she’s unavailable suggest a drink later. To leave her feeling like the one controlling the soone-to-be friendship, give her your contact number rather than intimidate her by asking for hers.
ð SURPRISES – Once you’re on your way to cementing a relationship with “the woman of your dreams” remember we ALL LOVE SURPRISES!!! And they don’t have to cost anything! One of my favourite surprises from my husband was a bunch of hurridly yanked out gladioli bulbs from a field near my husband’s work which he presented me with – dirt and all! HOUSEWORK! Believe it or not if you undertake the smallest of jobs, you’re in the good books BIG TIME!
